Oh.
So the speaker of this quote is implying her mother has a debilitating, life-long, and incurable mental illness that requires careful moderation and treatment including: pharmaceuticals, talk therapy, and most likely, hospitalization. Because she took away her phone. Really? That's an insult?
Despite popular notions regarding Bipolar Disorder--or, in its archaic term, Manic Depression--has very little to do with being a "bitch" or being "moody." Bipolar Disorder is characterized by periods of Mania and Depression. Bipolar Disorder makes an individual's life exceptionally more challenging than by those unaffected by the illness.
By what constitutes Mania? And isn't everyone a little depressed?
Mania--according to the most updated Diagnostic Statistical Manual (DSM-5)--is characterized by elevated feelings of pleasure, a decreased need for sleep, and an inflated sense of self-importance. Individuals with Bipolar Disorder might feel agitated, self-absorbed, or "invincible." They might even have delusional thoughts (i.e. being a god, being capable of extreme tasks/workloads, etc.) or hallucinations.
And then it's over. And Depression takes over. Lying in bed. Contemplating suicide. Binge-eating (and in some cases, purging/restricting). Loss of friends. Loss of pleasure. Loss of will. Loss of job. Loss of straight A's. Loss of self-esteem. Loss of life. The only things one can gain from the Depressive states of Bipolar Disorder are experience and probably a couple of pounds.
Cycling between Mania and Depression (and in some cases, hypomania and mixed episodes) is debilitating, painful, and confusing. Moreover, the effects of Bipolar Disorder on its patients definitely warrants the association of their talent(s) with Savant Syndrome.
Bipolar individuals face challenges throughout their entire life. Parents of Bipolar children often struggle with behavior issues. Bipolar students struggle with extreme fluctuations in cognitive ability, heightened sensitivity to criticism, and an impaired ability to plan, organize, or concentrate within the school system. Bipolar adults struggle to keep jobs, pay bills, and maintain social formalities. Then about 20% of them kill themselves.
Well, that sucks.
But Bipolar Disorder isn't all bad. Bipolar individuals often have intense senses of creativity, empathy, and sensitivity. When manic, Bipolar individuals see, smell, taste, and hear the world at the loudest possible volume. As idealistically as possible. Individuals such as: Sylvia Plath, Vincent van Gogh, John Clare, Kurt Cobain, Frank Sinatra, and Virginia Woolf are all thought to have been affected by the disorder.
Thousands of people in America are affected by this disorder. And they're unaware of their possible exceptional talents. This is untapped potential. Where are we going wrong?
The Bell Curve. Take a gander at this "beauty":
(centerforpubliceducation.org)
The Bell Curve represents a theory that assumes most of American students are "destined" to fall right in the middle. That pukey orange average.
That's all fine and dandy, but how is a Bipolar student supposed to conform to such a caustic shape when their performance levels look more like this?
(corbisimages.com)
Yes, that graph serves two purposes 1.) to illustrate the dynamic, ever-changing nature of a Bipolar student's performance levels and 2.) to juxtapose mental and physical illness. American society, today, expects The Bell Curve. Many Americans expect to classify individuals into categories: unexceptional, ordinary, exceptional. Bipolar individuals experience fluctuations that make them fit into all of these categories (and more). And although not all Bipolar individuals are savants, life is the farthest thing from "average." Point is, the reason the suicide rate for Bipolar individuals is so high is because the world doesn't suit them.
But that's not the most tragic part. The most tragic part is that's what makes Bipolar individuals savants. That's what makes Bipolar individuals break out of themselves to become exceptional authors, artists, musicians, mathematicians, actors, singers, song-writers, scientists. Is the pain worth the possibility of exceptional talent? For society, maybe. For the individual, probably not. But we have to wonder, where would literature be if Sylvia Plath hadn't written The Bell Jar? Where would art be without Vincent van Gogh's "Starry Night"? Where would music be without Kurt Cobain and grunge? There is no coincidental correlation between Bipolar Disorder and exceptional talent. There is only Savant Syndrome.
Sylvia Plath Documentary